# What should I do if someone I am concerned about refuses to seek help for suicide risk signs? Canonical page: https://clinicsjo.com/en/faq/what-to-do-if-someone-i-worry-about-refuses-help-for-suicide-risk-signs Language: en Category: mental_health Publisher: ClinicsJo Published: 2026-09-13T17:52:51.415Z Content updated: 2026-09-13T17:52:51.415Z Translation (ar): https://clinicsjo.com/ar/faq/what-to-do-if-someone-i-worry-about-refuses-help-for-suicide-risk-signs If someone you care about refuses to seek help despite showing signs of suicide risk, it is essential not to leave them alone and to look for other ways to support them. In emergencies involving an imminent threat to life, emergency services must be contacted immediately. In less urgent situations, steps can be taken to help maintain their safety and connect them with available resources, keeping in mind that refusing help does not mean there is no hope for improvement. ## How to Handle the Initial Refusal of Help When someone struggling with suicidal thoughts refuses to seek help, it can be frustrating, but it is important to continue offering support. Never leave them alone if there is an imminent risk. Try to listen carefully without judgment and attempt to understand their feelings and thoughts. Simply being present and listening may help reduce their feelings of loneliness and isolation [\[3\]](). It is important to remember that talking about suicide does not increase suicidal behavior or thoughts; rather, it can be a first step toward receiving help [\[3\]](). ## Practical Steps to Keep the Person Safe If the person refuses help, the top priority is to keep them safe. Ask them directly if they are thinking about suicide [\[1\]](). If they have a plan, try to remove any means they might use to harm themselves, such as firearms or medications [\[3\]](). This measure, known as reducing access to lethal means, can lower the risk of suicide [\[2\]](). Stay with them and do not leave them alone, especially if they are exhibiting warning signs such as talking about wanting to die, feeling hopeless, withdrawing from friends and family, or talking about being a burden to others [\[1\]](). ## Connecting the Person to Specialized Resources Even if the person refuses help directly, you can try to connect them to specialized resources. This may include calling specialized crisis helplines, which provide confidential support around the clock [\[1\]](). You can also try contacting a trusted family member, friend, spiritual counselor, or mental health professional on their behalf [\[3\]](). It may also be helpful to create a safety plan or crisis response plan with them, which includes specific instructions on what to do and how to get help when suicidal thoughts arise [\[2\]](). ## The Importance of Follow-Up and Continuous Support After any crisis or attempt to get help, it is very important to stay in contact with the person [\[3\]](). Studies have shown that consistent, supportive contact can play an important role in suicide prevention [\[3\]](). The person may feel ashamed or embarrassed and might need time to accept the idea of seeking help. Continue to express your care and support, and remind them that you are there for them. This simple follow-up can be a critical factor in the recovery journey. For more information on suicide risk signs and how to provide immediate help, you can visit [Suicide Risk Signs: How to Recognize and Provide Immediate Help (Arabic)](). ## Medical references - [Suicide]() - [5 Action Steps to Help Someone Having Thoughts of Suicide]() - [Frequently Asked Questions About Suicide]() General health education; not a substitute for individualized clinical assessment. Citation URL: https://clinicsjo.com/en/faq/what-to-do-if-someone-i-worry-about-refuses-help-for-suicide-risk-signs#answer